A year closer to death.
Birthdays are funny things, don't you think? When you're young it seems like it is an eternity between each one as your sole focus is to get to some magical age where life is like it is for the characters in your favorite coming of age flick.
When you first have kids, you live for their birthdays as they represent milestones in their development, your evolution as a parent, and the countdown to getting them out of the house! :)
But after your kids reach a certain age, say one where they have given up enough of their selfishness to actually acknowledge that there are not just two kinds of days - their birthday and "x days until their next birthday" but rather that Mom and Dad have birthdays too, the meaning of your birthday changes yet again.
Instead of having a big party and just getting hammered with all your hip friends like you used to when you were first old enough to legally drink AND single OR at least childless, I now view my birthday as an annual reminder to be thankful I am alive and healthy, that I have a wife who I love very much and loves me back equally, that I have two healthy, happy, smart, and beautiful children, and that the clock is resetting on my next year of goals and aspirations. And oh yeah, that the (overall) clock is ticking so I should really ride my positivity and get my ass in gear!
In all seriousness, I really do think a birthday can serve as a great, annual goal setting event that is thankfully (for all of us not born on January 1st) not New Year's. New Year's resolutions, unfortunately, come with so much baggage and expectation attached that I think for the vast majority of the population, they are next-to-impossible to stick to.
But a personal set of birthday resolutions, set on your own special day each year become a unique opportunity to better yourself, your relationships, your work, your play, your legacy.
And so you can start your year off right, please take the day off from work. You, your family, and your friends will be better for it!